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Hello and welcome to Wholeness Health and You! My name is Amy and I’m so glad you stopped by!

Wholeness Health and You was created based on my own health journey and wanting to share what I’ve learned (so far!) with you in a simple, real, and honest way that empowers you to take an active role in your health.

The concept is simple. You are not broken, you are whole. You have what it takes to achieve optimal health, you just might need a little help discovering what that means for you. And on your journey you will come to realize what you are really capable of.

On a slightly deeper level, it all begins with WHY. Finding our true “why” is the basis for all that comes after. And yes, it actually does matter! It can be the ‘make it or break it’ of our success.

So join me for the ride! Read about the different aspects of health, plus all kinds of informational tidbits, recipes, and recommendations for books, podcasts, shows, activities, and whatever else I can think of! Explore the site and begin YOUR journey…

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Numbers Don’t Lie

Good morning and Happy Wednesday!

As you may know, I’m a nerd. I love learning! I love sharing what I learn with others who are interested in similar topics. I like diving into research and investigating things that I hear or read about. And while theory is great, I love it when I can see actual proof of that theory. In other words, numbers, which is usually how the scientific community speaks.

For example, I meet people who have had scans that reveal osteopenia or osteoporosis and they come to us for strength training at the advice of their doctors. Simply stated, building muscle leads to building bone. Click here to read a previous post about this very topic. In our brains we think, “Great! That’s wonderful,” but let’s be honest . . . we’re also a bit skeptical about it, yet hope that it’s completely true. What’s really awesome is to have clients come in for their workout and share that a subsequent scan shows maintenance and/or improvement!! They’re so excited that what they’re doing for themselves is paying off. Their commitment and consistency is actually working. The proof is in the numbers. And numbers don’t lie.

So now it’s my turn to rejoice! I just had my annual checkup and routine bloodwork. I wasn’t terribly worried about anything in particular except maybe my Vitamin D and cholesterol levels. A year ago I was treated for Vitamin D deficiency which has stabilized, so that’s good. But here’s the really cool part: my overall cholesterol score DROPPED 30 POINTS! I was stunned! For the past year my husband and I have remained very consistent with a Mediterranean “diet” {{shivers at the word}} and the results are phenomenal. My cholesterol was a tad high at this time last year, though the ratios were totally in line, so the doctor didn’t feel it was necessary to do anything about it. But looking at my scores now, I was flabbergasted yesterday. Wow! The numbers don’t lie. I’m active, for sure, but the biggest change I made was my nutrition structure and it’s paying off!

So, a big thanks to Julene Stassou and her amazing book! I hope that you’ll consider purchasing it so that you can see and enjoy the results for yourself!

Have a fabulous day!

#numbersdontlie

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

The Dopamine Rebalance Challenge

Hey there! Happy Thursday! (Or Friday Eve, if you prefer.)

I hope you’ve had a chance to download the Insight Timer app and try the Dopamine Rebalance Challenge. It began yesterday and so far I think it’s pretty good. The short, targeted sessions are designed to teach us one skill per day that will help us to recognize the trigger or urge, pause to create a gap, and then we can make the choice to act . . . or not. If you missed yesterday’s session please don’t worry. You can always do Days 1 and 2 today. 😉

I encourage you to give it a shot. I’ll be continuing with the challenge in addition to my regular meditations. Let me know what you think of the challenge and how it’s helping you find satisfaction and joy in the “ordinary”. Namaste.

#dopaminerebalancechallenge

#insighttimer

#createthegap

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Coming Soon: The Dopamine Rebalance Challenge

Hey oh! Did you know . . . ?

Your brain releases chemicals all the time in response different stimuli. It’s what keeps us alive, calms us down, gives us the exercise high, and pushes us to pursue pleasure. This last one is driven by dopamine, to be exact. It goes up when we’re excited about something, moving us forward in the pursuit of pleasure, building the anticipation of the possibility of success. It skyrockets when we can’t find what we’re looking for. In the digital age, we’re overstimulating ourselves with social media scrolling, instant results and rewards, or constant notifications. Over time, we become desensitized to it, causing us to search for the next big thing. The unfortunate consequence is that it takes more and more to achieve that same “high”. What’s interesting is that the simple things that used to make us happy like going for a stroll, doing a puzzle, or having a leisurely cup of coffee or tea while chatting with a friend no longer produce the dopamine effect we’re looking for.

So . . . our friends at Insight Timer are hosting the Dopamine Rebalance Challenge beginning this Wednesday, March 25th. Over the course of 10 days, we’ll learn ways in which we can reset, retrain, and restore our brains to be happy once again with the simple pleasures in life. I’ll be following along, for sure, and I hope that you do too!

If you don’t yet have the Insight Timer app, visit the Stuff I Love! page to read my blurb about it, maybe go to their website and learn more about their mission, and download it so that you can start your journey on the path to rebalance your brain!

See you Wednesday!

#dopaminerebalancechallenge

#insighttimer

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

The Mediterranean Diet Weight Loss Solution

Last year my husband and I wanted to find a more healthy, sustainable lifestyle that included good food, exercise, and fun activity. It wasn’t that we ate poorly, but we felt like we were stuck in a bit of a ‘food rut’, so I bought a cookbook with the hope that it would offer us lots of variety as we embarked on our Mediterranean lifestyle. It’s a 28-day program for weight loss that includes not only a ton of recipes for breakfast, lunch, dinner and everything in between but also guidelines for exercise, what to do for the first 28 days AND how to keep your momentum for a lifetime of success. It’s called “The Mediterranean Diet Weight Loss Solution” by Julene Stassou, MS, RD. I have to say that I have never used a cookbook more, and I have several. I really like how the book is written – simply but intelligently – and I love the design and layout as well, with plenty of helpful tools to get you started and, more importantly, to keep you going.

First, let’s meet Julene Stassou. She is a registered dietician, having obtained her master’s degree in nutrition education from Columbia University. She also comes from a big Greek family so, you know, a foodie through and through both professionally and personally. 🙂 Her goal here is to educate us on not just what to eat but how to realistically incorporate different aspects of the Mediterranean lifestyle into our own lives and sustain them for a lifetime. She mentions that research throughout the years has shown that a Mediterranean lifestyle is not only practical, realistic, and affordable but sustainable too. There isn’t really any restriction, like in a typical ‘diet’, so we can eat the things we enjoy – she’s just going to teach us how to be smarter about it. So here’s the skinny . . .

The book is divided into 3 parts: Getting Started, Your 28-Day Commitment, and The Recipes. I’ll touch on each section and highlight a few things I think are pretty cool.

Part 1: Getting Started

The first part of this section compares and contrasts the Standard American Diet and The Mediterranean Diet. Yikes! To see them side-by-side is scary, as are the catastrophic effects of eating processed foods and not getting enough exercise and R&R. Julene lays out the Mediterranean food “pyramid” that looks very different than the one the U.S. government churns out. It’s full of whole foods, vegetables, fruits, whole grains, olive oil, fresh fish, lean poultry, eggs, and legumes. She also highlights the fact that the people of the Mediterranean are very active, and not because they go to the gym five days a week. They just, well, move more. Granted, the geographical layout of the cities as well as the climate lend themselves to being able to be outside more often and therefore they walk or ride bikes on a daily basis. Here, in the U.S., things are more spread out so we drive just about everywhere but that doesn’t mean we have to sit in front of our computers all day, every day either. We can make the effort to move more.

The next part tackles the topic of weight loss. She addresses caloric intake, the purpose and value of eating high quality protein, fats, carbs, and vegetables, giving examples of each. Then she dives into the Mediterranean approach to life which includes more than just food and movement; it must also include rest, relaxation, and mindfulness. In addition to eating fresh, good food and making time for exercise and activity, we need to set aside our to-do lists and focus on trying to get more sleep, chill out a bit, and make sure we do our best to adopt a more positive mindset.

When it comes to eating and figuring portion size, Julene offers some tips and tricks to kickstart the process – from reading food labels to choosing nutrient-dense foods to how to dine out. My favorite is “eat from plates, not packages.” (It’s a great way to make me stop and think about my food choice!) She also includes a visual graphic of portion sizes in relation to our own hands, i.e. fist vs. palm, etc., and even gives some common examples of foods that fit those ‘measurements’. Here, she also gives some pointers on how to recognize, and correct, bad habits. (There’s even a “Habit Tracker” we can use during the first 28 days to help us.)

Julene stresses goal-setting as an incredibly important part of the journey. She says that there are two kinds of goals: the outcome and the process. The Outcome Goal is what you want to achieve, however she says that these types of goals only give us a target; they don’t tell us how to get there. Enter: The Process Goal. These types of goals are the specific tasks or steps we take in order to get to the outcome; walking 30 minutes per day or adding 2-3 extra servings of fruits and vegetables every day are a couple of examples of process goals and are focused on creating new, healthier habits. She also identifies something called “SMART Goals” as essential to achieving the ultimate goal:

Specific . . . Measurable . . . Attainable . . . Realistic . . . Trackable

Julene addresses each one of these in more detail and even includes a weight loss plan worksheet to help us think about what we want and how to get there.

The final section focuses on exercise, rest, and relaxation. They are essential components of the Mediterranean lifestyle which is a much more holistic choice for not just weight loss but for life in general. Julene talks about the importance of exercise for our brains and our bodies and encourages a combination of activities for optimal results. Ideally we should do strength training as well as cardio but also says that every little bit helps, especially when we’re just starting out. She suggests doing a variety of things so that we avoid boredom and use different muscles, or throwing in a little interval training, or extend the time if possible. Here, there’s a graphic that outlines four weeks of a possible schedule to help us start a routine and even includes pages of simple exercises with explanations and drawings for us. Establishing a regular pattern will aid in creating a new habit that we can carry forward. Plus, you know, it’ll make us feel better. 🙂

Finally Julene talks about the benefits of staying hydrated by drinking lots of water and eating fruits and vegetables that have high water content. Not only does it make our skin look great but it helps us from overeating. She also encourages us to really make an effort to fit in rest and relaxation. Sleep is incredibly important, of course, but so is taking regular breaks throughout the day to breathe. If we don’t pause for a few moments our bodies will stay in a constant state of fight-or-flight and that leads to horrible consequences, both physically and mentally. Reducing stress helps us digest better, sleep better, improves our mood, and even helps us deal with everyday life.

Part 2: The 28-Day Plan

Ok! Now we can get into the nitty gritty details of the program! In this section, Julene reiterates that any kind of change of habit requires commitment. She wants us to make sure that we’ve really looked at our current habits, our goals, the time needed for the program, and our commitment to ourselves. She goes over a few last-minute details and reminds us to be patient with ourselves – this is not a quick fix. It’s a process. One that needs to be practiced. But it’s the first step to a lifetime of health and wellbeing, which is what we ultimately want, right?

For those who want or need everything to be laid out for them with step-by-step instructions, this is for you. Even if you don’t necessarily need meal plans, but want tips, tricks, ideas, and helpful tools to aid in your journey, don’t skip this part! Everyone needs a little help!

The next part of the book is divided into four weeks. Each week includes the following: a complete shopping list, what to make ahead of time, a full 7-day menu with breakfast, lunch, dinner, and suggested snacks, plus a page dedicated to recording your exercise routine and tracking your habits throughout the week.

The shopping lists contain the amounts or weights for everything and the menus include pages numbers for all of the recipes. By the way, the meals outlined here are very filling – and I love that leftovers are built into the week. For me, that’s a huge bonus because my work schedule doesn’t allow me to be at home to cook every night. (Plus, I’m just not that into cooking . . .) At the beginning of each week, Julene talks about the benefits of our new habits, what to expect in the week to come, and adds a couple of tips and tricks to keep us going. And, as always, she encourages us to pat ourselves on the back for making the commitment and sticking to it. By the end of four weeks we’ve made significant strides toward establishing healthier eating and exercise habits that we can take with us as we move forward.

The final section of Part 2 is what sets this book apart from others I’ve read. It goes beyond the first 28 days. Here, Julene explains that we have the tools to continue our journey of losing weight and/or living a healthier lifestyle but that sometimes we have to make adjustments. That’s ok. We just need to remember that we are in charge, we need to prioritize ourselves, we must continue to include ourselves in the process, and we should remember our long-term goals. She also reminds us that the more we practice this new way of living, the better we’ll get at it, and the easier it will become to fend off old habits and keep our eyes on the prize. Julene encourages maintaining an actual written exercise plan that fits with our schedules and, when it comes to fighting off cravings, she says to remember the “3 Ds”: DRINK more water, DETOUR the craving with a better food choice, and DISTRACT ourselves by doing something else. She offers more tips and tricks for success, two more weeks of menus, and a blank menu so that we can fill it in with our favorites or experiment with other recipes.

Part 3: The Recipes

Woo hoo! On to the good stuff!!! The final part of the book is all recipes – nine sections of them! Here, Julene breaks everything down into groups rather than meals of the day. For instance, she begins with Breakfast and Snacks, but the rest of the categories are divided into Soups and Salads, Fish and Seafood, Beans, Legumes, and Vegetable Mains, etc.

Each page is dedicated to one recipe and they’re incredibly detailed. Julene not only lists the ingredients (and amounts of each) but how many servings it makes, how long it takes to prep as well as cook, a brief description of the dish, and easy-to-follow instructions. She even breaks down calories, fats, carbs, protein, sugars, fiber, cholesterol, sodium, etc. per serving for us so that there’s no guesswork. Another really awesome feature included with nearly every recipe is some kind of tip. It could be a cooking or preparation tip, how to make it a meal, a blurb about one of the ingredients, or a variation of the dish. I especially appreciate the substitution tips. If you have an allergy or are vegetarian or vegan, many times she offers alternatives to the ingredients so that you can enjoy the dish without having to sacrifice physical health or principles. A few of our favorite dishes are Moussaka, One-Pan Tuscan Chicken, and Shrimp Scampi. Oh! And Chop Chop Salad. The smoothies are good too! Anyway . . .

Julene rounds out the book with a recipe index, resources, credits, and the Dirty Dozen and Clean Fifteen lists. (They’re from 2017 but it’s easy to find the most recent lists on ewg.org) And, for those of us who are challenged by conversions, Julene includes a conversion chart for volume, weights, and temperatures.

My husband and I really do love this book. It offers a realistic and holistic approach to health and wellness that we can sustain for the rest of our lives. It’s not a restrictive ‘diet’ (I shudder at the word!), nor is it a fad that only works for a short period of time. It truly is a way of life that delivers delicious food, a positive outlook, and fun activities for achievable and sustainable health for years to come.

If you’d like to purchase this book, click here. For less that $20, it’s a steal!

***Please note that, while I absolutely love the book, use it all the time, and would never steer you wrong, I earn a tiny commission for sales that result from clicking on the link to the book’s Amazon page.***

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset Toolbox

We did it! 12 days of the Nervous System Reset Challenge! Congratulations!!!

At the end of Day 12 Anaïs gives a quick recap of the tools offered during the challenge and reminds us that they’re not “meant to fix you; they’re here to support you.” She also says that regulation isn’t something we aspire to, it’s something that we practice time and time again, in a continual and growing relationship with our bodies and nervous systems. (It’s all about the journey, isn’t it?)

I don’t know about you, but I learned a few things about myself over the past several days as well as some quick, easy techniques for cooling my jets when things get to be too much. I especially liked the breathing exercises on Days 1 and 3 as well as the grounding activities on Days 2 and 6. Those are simple practices that I can do anywhere, at any time – and no one will even notice. I love to sing and dance, so Days 8 and 11 might be things to do when I’m by myself in the car or at home. I employed Day 10’s five-finger breathing technique just yesterday while my husband and I were struggling through our taxes. (Eye roll . . . breathe . . . breathe . . . breathe!!!)

Now, in case you don’t have access to the archives through the Plus membership on Insight Timer, I’ve made a table for you with each day, lesson, and a brief description of the exercise. You’re always welcome to go back to any of my posts and refresh your memory, but I thought this may be a nice, quick reference guide you can come back to and use whenever you’d like.

1: Enhancing vagal toneSlow, rhythmic breathing:
5-count inhale, 5-count exhale
2: Body-based groundingContact, pressure, and sensation:
Notice contact, apply pressure, release
3: Extended exhale breathingReduce urgency:
3-count inhale, 6-count exhale
4: Self-soothing touchUsing touch to soothe:
Gentle tapping
5: Sensory orientationSense and organize for safety:
Use eyes and ears to notice; no judgment
6: Releasing physical tensionNotice, breathe, release:
Notice tension, breathe, let it go
7: Physiological sighAcute stress release:
Double inhale, long loud sigh
8: Humming for calmCalm through vibration:
Humming (static note or undulating)
9: Gentle ear massageSoothing touch:
Gently trace and massage the ears
10: Dual regulation 5-finger breathingTop-down and bottom-up regulation:
Trace the fingers, inhale up, exhale down
11: Rhythmic movementSoothe through movement:
Sway side to side or back and forth
12: Regulating through the eyesSoften the gaze:
Look left, breathe, look right, breathe

Which practices resonated most with you? Did you use any of the techniques repeatedly? When? Was there any particular exercise that you loved? Or not? Why? How did they make you feel? Did you notice any kind of shift? I’d truly love to know what you think and how you might use these techniques in the future.

In the meantime, I hope you enjoyed the challenge and will continue to use at least a few of the tools we learned to help you through the rough times. I wish you all the best!

Love and light . . .

#nervoussystemresetchallenge

#regulationtoolbox

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset: Day 12

Okie doke! Day 12!

Our last lesson is with Anaïs Skoutariotis who leads us in a practice using our eyes. She explains that when we’re on alert and our nervous system is triggered, we use our eyes to protect ourselves. They focus or fixate on something. Our pupils react, eyes narrow sometimes. And, of course, they observe everything, looking for potential harm. But what we may not realize is that our eyes can also be used to calm the nervous system. Anaïs says that by “softening the gaze” and becoming aware of the edges of our surroundings we can actually tell our brains that it’s safe, therefore allowing ourselves to relax and reset. She tells us that, during the practice, we don’t have to focus our eyes on anything in particular, just be aware.

We begin by looking straight ahead, then letting our awareness drift to the edges of our field of vision. Then, without moving our heads, slowly look to the right. Breathe in. Breathe out. Then slowly look to the left. Breathe in. Breathe out. Back and forth we go. Pausing to breathe at each extreme. At this point she encourages us to allow our eye movements be smooth. Comfortable, without strain. She just tells us to let our brains take in the information, shapes, colors, etc.

Unfortunately, for me, I’m a very, very visual person and I immediately notice that my eyes are straining to go as far left or right as they can. Then I realize that it’s causing discomfort – and not just because I’ve pushed my eyes too far in any direction. There are simply too many ‘things’ in the room and that now irritates me. (For the record, my husband and I are in the middle of Swedish Death Cleaning and so things are definitely in disarray at the moment. Ugh.)

We finally come back to center and close our eyes. Breathe in. Breathe out. Think about what this exercise has done for us. Maybe there’s a shift. Calm. She finishes by asking us to take a moment to think back on the past 12 days and how these new skills have helped us. I’ll be following up this post with an overview of the challenge, so stay tuned.

But first, how did this lesson go for you? What did you think? Was it helpful? What did you notice? I hope you enjoy the rest of your day!

#nervoussystemresetchallenge

#softenthegaze

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset: Day 11

Kelly Smith is our teacher today and her focus is on movement. Simple, gentle swaying or rocking back and forth. Moving our bodies in a predictable and rhythmic way helps to soothe the nervous system. She invites us to match the movement with our breath if we so choose.

The activity in this lesson reminds me of being in a rocking chair. I remember calming my own children in a rocking chair – it not only soothed them but me as well. The practice is simple, for sure, though I can’t see doing this lying down. LOL I was in an overstuffed chair and it was too difficult to go back and forth so I swayed from side to side. It felt like dancing to slow song.

What did you think of this practice? Do you enjoy movement to help you reset?

One more day left in the challenge. I hope you’ve enjoyed it so far. Until tomorrow . . .

#nervoussystemresetchallenge

#swaysway

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset: Day 10

“Dual Regulation Five-Finger Breathing Practice”

When I first heard the title of today’s lesson I thought, What in the world is this? Can’t we just breathe or something? I’m not in the mood for, like, finger puppets . . .

Oh holy cow. I was not expecting this.

Our teacher, Dr. Jud Brewer, has a technique that blends breath, movement, sight, and touch in one exercise. He says that it’s a quick and easy way to hit the reset button whenever we need to instead of “waiting for tomorrow”. The ‘dual regulation’ part of it is described in this way: from the top down and from the bottom up. In other words, from the brain to the body and from the body to the brain. The strategy of this practice is to keep the brain busy so that it can’t wander or swirl out of control. It has to focus on a specific task. The body does the breathing part, working to calm things down and send the signal to the brain to switch from “fight or flight” to “rest and digest”. He calls the whole process “multi-modal load”. I call it amazing.

So here’s what to do: with the index finger of one hand, start at the outside bottom of your pinky. As you inhale, move your finger up your pinky, pause at the top, then move your finger down the inside of your pinky as you exhale. Repeat for each of the other fingers. Then reverse it. Start at the thumb and work your way back to your pinky. Ten breaths total.

Tracing the fingers and watching the process keeps your brain occupied. Focused. The steady breathing and touch help to soothe the body and reset the nervous system. It reminds me very much of my use of a japa mala which is a meditation necklace. I hold it in one hand and repeat a mantra as I touch each bead. It makes it very difficult for my brain to wander off when it’s focused on something seemingly mundane yet very specific. Usually by the time I get all the way around it I’ve achieved an incredibly relaxed meditative state and I feel so much better. Rested.

I thought this was pretty cool. Not gonna lie. It certainly wasn’t what I’d expected, that’s for sure. I’m glad I did it. And what’s even better is that I noticed that nothing else crept into my thoughts during the practice. It really distracted my brain, just enough to let things settle.

What do you think of this exercise? Is it something you’d use in a pinch, to maybe lessen some anxiety or reduce a feeling of overwhelm? How did you feel when you were done? Let me know . . .

I hope you had a nice reset today with this lesson and I hope that you can use it in the future. I know I will. Have a wonderful evening everyone!

#nervoussystemresetchallenge

#fivefingerbreathing

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset: Day 9

We’ve learned a few different ways to reset things: sight, sound, touch. Today is an extension of the touch theory – ear massage. I’ll be honest, I tried it and then just sat quietly. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that I had wrap around earbuds, or because it was about 3:30 in the morning when I did this, but it wasn’t quite what I needed today. And that’s ok.

Andrew Johnson says that our ears provide direct pathways to our nervous system and that gentle touch can be a great way to send calming signals to the brain. We don’t want to stimulate anything, we want to create a feeling of safety. He tells us that everything in the exercise is completely up to us whether or not we want to participate.

First, Andrew leads us through a couple of breaths, reminding us that this is our time to simply be. There’s nothing else to do. Nothing to fix. Next, we place our hands on our chests and take a moment to notice the sensation. No judgment. Then he asks us to bring one hand up to an ear and just hold it. Notice how it feels. We switch sides and do the same thing. Finally, with one ear first then the other, he asks us to follow the outside edge of the ear, up then down. After the exercise, Andrew asks us to notice how we feel, or if we notice any kind of shift.

That’s it. That’s the technique. Again, it wasn’t really for me but I could imagine myself doing something similar with, say, rubbing my fingers together, or maybe tracing the edges of my face or temples. We’ll see.

What did you think? Is it something you’d use to calm your nervous system? How did you feel afterward? Whatever you feel is valid – just remember that this is exploration of different ways of calming the nervous system and we need to do what works for us.

I hope you’re enjoying the challenge and that you have a great day!

#nervoussystemresetchallenge

The information provided on this website is intended for educational purposes only and is, in no way, a substitute for professional medical advice. The events, practices, and opinions discussed here are those of the author and should be treated as such. ALWAYS talk with your doctor about conditions, medications, and concerns you have about your health and work together to determine the best course of action for you.

Nervous System Reset: Day 8

Hummmmmmm . . . hummmmmmmm . . . hummmmmmmmmmmmm . . .

This is today’s practice. Humming. Now, I’ve grown up with music. Whether it’s playing various instruments, singing, or just listening to it, music is part of me. It calms me. It excites my senses. It can even stir strong emotions and I’ve been known to break into tears on occasion. Interestingly enough, however, I’ve never actually used it in my meditation practice. I honestly hadn’t thought of it. I know there are some who chant (think, Om) but it didn’t really appeal to me. Then when I started using Insight Timer and found the “Enchanted” sound I realized that, at low volume, the vibration lulled me into a nice state of being and I was able to really relax.

It’s that feeling that Ada and Nathan talk about in today’s session. Ada says that, when we hum, the vibration settles into our faces, throats, and chests sending signals to the vagus nerve. It then interprets those vibrations as signs that it’s’ safe therefore allowing our bodies to rest, regulate, and recharge. Nathan starts us out by asking us to take a deep breath and notice how our bodies are cradled by wherever we are. We take another breath in, then let it out slowly. Finally, we breathe in and, on the exhale, we’re invited to “find a hum”. It could be low, mid-range, or high. We don’t even need to stay on the same note. We can glide up and down and even hum a tune if we choose. I tried it for a bit and then found myself matching their tones and harmonizing with them throughout the rest of the session.

At the end of our lesson Nathan encourages us to notice how we feel. Ada asks if we feel differently. If we don’t notice anything, that’s ok. But she reminds us that the little steps we take now will lead to bigger changes for us moving forward. She says, “. . . every time we take a moment to reset we create an opening that interrupts the patterns of compounding stress.” What a cool way to think about it!

So whether we hum, touch, move, or breathe – it doesn’t matter. What matters is that we take the time to soothe and reset regularly. Two minutes or ten. Whatever time we carve out for calm is good. Did you try humming today? Have you ever used it in your practice? How did you feel? Did you notice any kind of shift?

By the way, I ended up following Wakes (Ada and Nathan) on Insight Timer and went back and previewed a few of their tracks. Some of them are actual songs and others have a kind of ethereal tone which was beautiful. Very talented people!

I hope you tried this exercise today, even if humming isn’t your thing. Sometimes we need to step outside of our comfort zones. Who knows, we might be pleasantly surprised.

Namaste.

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